Hi Zarathu:
Not sure what your question means, but perhaps I didn't word my sentence as well as I would like to have. I didn't mean to imply that my husband and I had different levels of love for our children, just that our role as parents take on different intentions or realms of experience, as it always does. I used the word "obviously", not because we had different planetary energies being expressed by the transits and that birth (or as a judgement of it) but because people always do have different expectations as to what parenthood will mean to them. Also, as parents we may be bringing in people that we need to settle karmic dramas with. In my own case, both of my sons have explicit karmic connections to me (shown by the Moon Nodes and planetary placements), whereas my daughter has closer karmic connections to my husband, her father.
I used Arabic parts a long time ago in consultations, usually in relation to sickness or surgery, and in suggesting the use of the Part of Fortune placement and sign for a "down time" activity for those under lots of stress. I also got a little obsessed with my Part of Death for awhile, suspecting that it was attached to air travel accidents.
Anyway, I am enjoying the additional usage of these spots once again. I wouldn't start out using Arabic Parts while studying a chart, but when a little more is required, what an awesome tool. I noticed that my husband and I both have the same degree for Part of Marriage. I may have seen it before, and probably thought "Oh, well, of course we do." But how cool is that? I checked our marriage date and the Moon Node was square to that point at the time (rather closely). In a sense, we are definitely not just married to each other, but to the "village" as they say. It takes a village to keep a marriage healthy. In times of trouble, we never had interference from family or friends over what to do or not to do, but we certainly had lots of comforting support. Everyone hoped we would stay together.
Thanks for the question. Did I answer it?
Barbara Ybarra