Creative Connections & Client Communications

Counseling Insights, April 30, 2009

The Holistic View

Literally tens of thousands of measurements –developmental pressures, opportunities—accost us throughout our lives. Most are absorbed by our conditioning, our routinization of responses, our defenses, our social structuring. Just as our mind can wander to another world entirely while we are driving a car, while our motor reflexes and perceptual senses do their job to keep us safe entirely automatically, so our lives can continue on in automatic drive while pressures and opportunities swoosh by us, around us, bump us and push forward or back. We change gears and get going, or we pull into the shop, automatically, by reflex, for reconditioning.

What do our clients hope for? To where is their mind driving?

The answer is that we/they hope for change. We hope for something to make life interesting, challenging, meaningful. Through that, we hope to find personal significance. There are clichés about this (so it must be true enough to be stereotyped) within the fortune-teller’s most heard question, “Tell me when I’ll meet the love of my life; tell me when I’ll be rich.” These are also the questions William Lilly heard 350 years ago, as did astrologers before and after him.

But maybe that particular time of inquiry with the astrologer is not the time when that particular hope could have a chance for fulfillment. The measurements may suggest that it may happen … or maybe the measurements are suggesting what is in the consciousness, what is being projected forward, what is being wished into being –and visiting the astrologer is part of that projection to make it happen.

Is the astrologer supposed to address “all of the above,” if you will? But how can the astrologer see everything? Are we expected to? Who do we think we should be, anyway?

Let’s remember two things about this in the main. First of all, Lilly pressed our awareness to see that our view of life must be rational and practical: that a child does not conceive children, nor do the very old; you can’t take on the world if you are feeble and debilitated, etc.

Second, Einstein is supposed to have said, “Genius is knowing what is important.” Within the myriad measurements facing the astrologer, within the myriad complexities of life facing the client, being shared by both during consultation, perhaps knowing what is important is the best way to economize the astrological effort and focus the astrologer’s skill. Getting to know the client ordinarily reveals what is important. This is critical in counseling.

In medicine –so that we astrologers do not feel so alone with these problems—researchers only recently have begun to discover that traditional cardiology, for example, was making the wrong generalizations about irregular heartbeats, inadvertently using superficial classifications to obscure deep causes. These discoveries were made by experts who were “out of the ordinary,” according to Jame Gleick, author of Chaos –Making a New Science, by researchers trained in physics and chemistry, in physiology and mathematics as well as medicine. Other points of view were being brought to the specialist subject.

One of these researchers, Leon Glass of McGill University in Montreal, was trained in physics and chemistry, completing his doctoral thesis on atomic motion in liquids before turning to the problem of irregular heartbeats. He found that typically specialists diagnose many different arrhythmias by looking at short strips of electro-cardiograms. “It’s treated by physicians as a pattern-recognition problem, a matter of identifying patterns they have seen before in practice and in textbooks. They really don’t analyze in detail the dynamics of these rhythms. The dynamics are much richer than anybody would guess from reading the textbooks.” [Chaos, page 281] --In other words, the patterns go just so far; holistically there is much more.

There is such a parallel here –a creative connection—with astrology, the patterns we see in the measurements, those patterns that we study in our textbooks. But there is so much more that is “dynamic” in all these patterns, and those dynamics of significance are seeded in the human condition.

We must get to know the client. We must ask the prudent question. We must appreciate the conditioning structure defined by the early development and corroborated by the measurements in the horoscope. This is astrology’s dynamism. This is astrology keeping pace with the times in the psychological centuries, in the Information Age. [Please peruse the Archives in this department, immediately following this essay.]

We must personalize and individualize astrology. And we must risk being positive: the least we accomplish in the situation of leaning toward the client’s wish projection is that we recognize the light in a dark situation. That light need not be reached; it is helpful in communication as potential release from the dark; it is helpful as reflection back into the dark to illuminate lost potentials, to bring problems to rest, to awaken solutions. There is hope.

Next Update, May 31, 2008


Archives

March 31, 2008: The Feelings You Create
December 31, 2007: Thematic Apperception Test
November 30, 2007: Counseling?
October 31, 2007: Getting out of Dodge!
September 30, 2007: Open Sesame: with Multiple Quintiles
August 31, 2007: Elegance comes from Knowing
July 31, 2007: Greater Expectations
June 30, 2007: Practicality and Reality must lead Measurements
May 31, 2007: Keeping track of your Images
April 30, 2007: Leading Developmental Questions
March 31, 2007: Allowing Inspiration
February 28, 2007: "A Psychotherapist's way with Astrology" By Guest Astrologer Teri Freeman
January 31, 2007: Repetitive Crises and Probable Patterning
December 31, 2006: The Difficulty with talking about Death
November 30, 2006: Key Catalytic Phrases
October 31, 2006: What supports Resilience?
September 30, 2006: Development of Individual Style
August 31, 2006: Management of Responsibility --Pecking at Saturn-retrograde
July 31, 2006: Through the Glasser Brightly
June 30, 2006: What do You bring to the Consultation?
May 30, 2006: Creating a Mantra
April 30, 2006: The 3R's: Review, Reinforcement, Raising Spirits
March 31, 2006: Being Alert to Creative Connections
February 28, 2006: Why Astrology is 'Our' Effective Therapy
January 30, 2006: Sub-texts to guide your Consultation
December 30, 2005: The Help of Time
November 30, 2005: Helping the Client establish Significances
October 30, 2005: Getting to the Skeletons in the Closet!
June 30, 2005: Filling in the Gaps
May 31, 2005: The Accumulation of Stress
April 30, 2005: Love Received and Love Given
March 31, 2005: Time, Tension, and Change
February 28, 2005: Hearing the Answer within the Question
January 31, 2005: Telling Stories
December 31, 2004: Changing Your Horoscope
November 30, 2004: Recommending a PsychoSemantic Diet
October 31, 2004: Helping with 11th House Tensions
September 30, 2004: Extending Suggestions Creatively
August 31, 2004: Corollary Thinking
July 31, 2004: Making Decisions or Waiting for Things to Happen
June 30, 2004: 'Faithing' to Support Resilience
May 31, 2004: Qualifying Generalizations for Disclosure of Values
April 28, 2004: What's to Remember?
March 31, 2004: Double-Attachment Empowerment
February 27, 2004: Dynamics of Disclosure
January 30, 2004: Therapeutic Shifts of Mind
January 2, 2004: Tell a Story to Convey a Point
November 30, 2003: Double-Feature Reprise: 'The Surprising Question' and 'Managing Anxiety'
October 30, 2003: Saying Something Important
September 30, 2003: A Positive Approach to Difficulty
August 30, 2003: The Supportiveness of Credibility
July 29, 2003: Polished Communications
June 30, 2003: The Magic of 'What If?'
May 31, 2003: How Many Defenses Do You Need?
May 1, 2003: Therapeutic Metaphors Revisited
April 1, 2003: Wish Fulfillment / Power of Suggestion
February 26, 2003: The Earliest Memory/Suppression
January 29, 2003: Are you Really Listening?
December 30, 2002: The Talent for Asking Questions
November 29, 2002: Difficult Reality Motivating New Choice
October 29, 2002: Assumptive Questioning
August 29, 2002: Recognizing Limiting Boundaries
July 30, 2002: Asking the Surprising Question
June 29, 2002: Managing Anxiety
May 29, 2002: Your Client’s Awareness
April 29, 2002: How do you Sound to your Clients?
March 30, 2002: A Communication Therapy
February 28, 2002: Considerations for the 8th House
February 1, 2002: Patience with your Client’s Unconscious
December 31, 2001: Lifting Your Client UP!
November, 2001: Strategic Knowledge and Common Sense
October, 2001: It Berras Consideration!
September, 2001: More Discussion: Therapeutic Metaphors
August, 2001: The Last Five Minutes
July, 2001: Avoiding Extremes for Common Sense
June, 2001: The Fear of Counseling
May, 2001: Subtext Use as Therapy
April, 2001: Getting Close to the Client
March, 2001: Therapeutic Images
February, 2001: Patience and Disclosure
January, 2001: Practicality, Reality Lead Measurements
December, 2000: Creative Connections & Client Communications
November, 2000: Too Much of a Good Thing
October 30, 2000: Harrummmpf! You've hit a nerve!
September 30, 2000: Circumstantial Confinement
August 31, 2000: Circumstantial Confinement
March 31, 2000: Establishing Objectives to Guide the Consultation
February 29, 2000: The 12th House, continued
January 30, 2000: The 12th House
December 30, 1999: More Creative Insights
November 30, 1999: How Far Do Planets Go?
The October 30, 1999 article is regrettably unavailable (webmaster's error)
September 25, 1999: The Fear of Abandonment
August 21, 1999: Consultation Glimpses
August 1, 1999: Art of Connections
July 15, 1999: Art of Questioning



 



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